bullying.

It's something that in one point of our lives, we'll all go through. It's terrible, cruel and unbelievably spitful, but it breeds like rabbits in this world. Why does it happen? Is it because their own life is so messed up and hurtful that they feel the need to make others feel as low as they do? Are they jealous of them or just think that the victim isn't pretty enough to feel beautiful or amazing? Are they just doing it for the sheer fact that it's something to do? You may think a snide remark here and there doesn't do anything to people, but it does. It'll hurt them, make them question themselves and if they're good enough. The number of people who have died because of this is alarming, and it's all because of things that have started out small have gotten out of control.

If you don't want it to happen to you, if you don't want to be treated like you're an unsignificant being with no meaning, why do you let it happen to others? It isn't fair to laugh along when people are getting bullied or told that they aren't worth it, worth their love, worth the boy or whatever it is. Imagine going through that and then tell me it's funny. Every life is precious. They may mean nothing to the person that's hurting them, but I can guarantee you that they're dying inside, bit by bit and piece by piece and it's killing the people that love them.

Don't do it. It isn't worth the pain you'll cause, the lives you'll hurt and the things you'll break inside yourself. Gossip Girl makes great television, but reality isn't scripted. You can't second guess what'll happen, you can't tell people what to do and be a cow and it'll all be fine once the camera stops rolling because reallity doesn't have a camera. Being Queen Bee may mean you own the school while you attend it, but it'll get you nowhere in life once you leave. Chances are, one of the people you constantly told were flat-chested or ugly will be someone you end up as the boss to your dream job and not give it to you.

Remember that no matter what anybody else says that you're beautiful, you're unique and amazing and that nobody out there is perfect. We're all flawed in our own special ways that make us who we are.
xoxo

imperfections.

I recently realised that my top lip is smaller than my bottom lip. This really annoyed me. I then pointed this out to my mum, who told me that it's a part of me. I thought this through and realised that so many of the things that people hate about themselves, the imperfections and flaws, are the things that make them who we are. Is doesn't matter if we have bigger thighs then the girl next to us, or if we weight a little more than your best friend, who is a sports nut.

It's the little things that make us who we are; we're all unique, so why do so many of us try and change that fact? What is so appealing to people to dye their hair blonde, to become sticks, to become stereotypical? We judge people because of so called flaws and imperfections, esspecially guys; she's hot, but have you seen her nose? No way, man. I don't want to be judged and told what I have to look like. I don't want to be told, oh, you have glasses and braces, you must be ugly. Oh, hell no! I refuse to have that happen and for people to tell me who I am. Nothing is wrong with you being more comfortable in a bookstore than going to clothing stores. Nothing is wrong with you wanting to wear shorts all the time, not dressing up and not covering yourself with makeup so thick that you need a spatula to get it off.

I guess what I'm trying to say is, don't let the little things change who you are. They're a part of you, and nothing can change that. Don't change yourself to make people happy with you, or like you. Be comfortable in your own skin and never let yourself forget that you're beautiful. (:

introductions.

Hey there. ;) I'm Gabriella. I'm 14. I have many deep things that I end up saying randomly and that have no real purpose for in conversations that I'm currently in, or I end up posting them on other websites on boards and realising that they probably belonged on a blog and not on said website. I don't really do much with my life. I follow the simple pattern of eat, sleep, school, internet, friends, read HP fanfiction, write, throw schoolwork out the window. Draco x Ginny is the best ship EVER. J.K Rowling meant for Ginny to dump Harry's ass in the end and run off and help the poor little rich boy who was in way over his head, aka Draco Malfoy. If you don't know what I'm talking about, your a sad, sad person.

I have been on awesomest site for a few years now - it's called kittentracks.com. On there I'm Ella & my account number is #52775. Check it out. ;) It's my addiction. Seriously. It's the simple reason of why I never hand in assignments.. actually, I guess that reason goes to internet in general. My favourite colour is purple, I'm moving to the UK when I'm older, I have 8 best friends all of whom are pretty amazing, photoshop is fun to play around with, I know HTML... I may look pretty stupid, but I'm a total smartass.. this is when my get-to-know-me ranty runs out.

Anyway, I guess this is a sucky introduction, but it'll have to do.
- Gabriellaaa. (: